My favorite solution that I use is the Sony Silver Headset, it's USB. But, the headset is so uncomfortable, I just plug another one into the port (same port as the controller, so if your headset works on a controller, it works with the silver cable). That way, you get the Sony supported simulated 7.1 surround.
However, Sony may have discontinued the silver headsets, they seem hard to find. But also means, if you find one, it's discounted, making it worth it for just the cable.